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Real Life Love Stories |
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Where Is The Love? |
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by
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Imagine for a second that a young couple so deep in love
that they can't see beyond each other's eyes, plan out not
only a pending wedding but as well what will be a blueprint
for the rest of their lives together.
Next imagine that for one night all is forgotten. It's funny
how your world can turn upside down in an instant either for
good or the bad. The ironic thing is that she wound up doing
both to me. Now I have some simple philosophies about
relationships and one of them just seems to be about trust.
"I will always trust you until you give me a reason not to."
She said that there was going to be a girl's nite out at a
local club and I told her I was fine with it because she
needed it (We were both going through some stress at the
time). After finding out that she had already decided not to
come back till around 3 in the morning, I decided to make
plans for myself so as I wouldn't be left alone all night. I
went to the other side of town to hang out with my best
friend whom I haven't seen for a long while. I planned
everything out perfectly so that I would be at home right
around 3 about the same time as her. Well as the night
progressed I was starting to get a little dependant on her
call. I was waiting to hear how here night was going or for
her to as how my night was going...... no call at all.
Right around 2 I decided to call her it was no surprise that
she was totally wasted but thanks to her friend from work
she was able to get home safely. I rushed to get back home
but was only able to make it by 3 like I had intended. As I
entered our apartment I found her boots lying in the living
room and also found her sound asleep in the room. Now here
is the part where I do admit that I could be wrong. As I was
setting up to go to sleep as well, I checked her phone and
her text messages only to find that she had sent various
messages to someone named Anna. By my own knowledge Anna is
a female name but these messages weren't made out on that
fact. It seemed that she was sending messages to someone
named Ricky which I can only think was her ex-boyfriend
before I came along a year ago. You also have to keep in
mind, that was the last piece of the puzzle that confirmed
my suspicions. On earlier occasions she would step out of a
room to make a call, became very private about the things
she did when I wasn't around, and to top it all off was
acting very separated towards me. I think that if it looks
like shit, smells like shit, then 10 times out of 10 it is
shit. My only assumption was that she is cheating on me. Now
here I am, the following day pouring my heart out to anyone
that will listen. Everything I have in life is in her. My
family is in another state, we've invested so much into each
other, and basically outside of this I have nothing. Just in
case your wondering if i'm making myself look like a saint,
i'm gonna give you some quick details about myself. I'm not
a drinker, or a smoker. I'm from what people tell me funny,
caring, and at sometimes out going. I have never done
anything to harm her and have treated her like a queen. I
guess I am a saint after all.
any advice?
I guess with everything in life we are just going to wait
and see the outcome. I really appreciate you taking the time
to read my story.
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Hey man i have
some advice though it is purely up to you how you want to
take it. First let me tell you that i was in the same boat
my friend, though i wasn't living with my girlfriend. I was
living a city away from her but frequently visited her as
much i possibly could. I was in college and she was still in
high school. She started to hang out with my best friend a
lot, and i never thought anything suspicious until she was
getting rides from him EVERYDAY and they did EVERYTHING
together. I didn't like it and i confronted her about it,
and she kept telling me nothing was going to happen they
were just friends. There were times that I would play with
her phone and she would snatch it back afraid i might go
through it. Well i got really fed up with the whole thing so
i sat her down one day and had a heart to heart with her. I
told her i don't care if your friends with him, but just
tell me one thing, "Am i your man, and are you my woman? and
will you ever betray me?" She said NO. Later down the road i
found out she cheated on me with him.
So as for my advice, i know that it may seem that im young
but i've learned a lot through a lot of heartbreaks. I see
only two paths that you have. Either cut your heart a break
and call it quits before things get out of hand and you end
up hurting yourself more. Your going to end up thinking
about her a lot and be very hurt but it might be something
you have to do. The second choice you have...you gotta learn
the hard way. Whether it be from lies deciet or someone else
telling you. But at this time it'll hurt even more, so
prepare yourself. Being "just friends" with some other guy
sometimes isn't the right path a woman in love is suppose to
take. I myself even wish that i ended my relationship
earlier instead of later. And here i am with the broken
heart and her enjoying her new boyfriend and being all
smiles.
As for my last word on this matter. "Don't let time dictate
your choices that you might have to make." Which means, you
might have to break it off whether you have been dating her
for a long time or not. I've learned that things turn sour
and it turns fast. Take care. ~Davis Nguyen |
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